Change for Good Coaching and Counseling
Discover a Path to Genuine Connection, Emotional Freedom, and Lasting Recovery
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If you're struggling with porn and impulsive sexual behaviors, you're in the right place.
About Me
Hi, I’m glad you’re here! You no longer have to struggle alone. I work to meet you where you are in a betrayal trauma-informed partner-sensitive approach. I’ve walked my own journey of recovery, so you will find I create an environment that not only is non-judgmental but strikes a careful balance between empathy and accountability. Together, we can turn pain into peace, chaos into calm, and heartache into hope. Feel free to explore and reach out with any questions! Let’s get to work!
Welcome!
I’m glad you are here!
Is porn and impulsive sexual behavior getting in the way of people and things you really value?
Have you tried to stop but kept going back? Do you fear relapse will keep you stuck? Do you want a porn-free life? A life where you feel deeply connected to and intimate with your spouse, feel a full range of emotions, and have empathy for yourself? If this sounds like you, let’s chat!
Get Help Now
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Couples Coaching
Start recovering from betrayal trauma together with the Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model (ERCEM).
✅Partner Sensitive : APSATS informed approach to coaching
✅ Trauma Informed : Betrayal Trauma sensitive support
✅ Safety + Empathy: Learn to create safety and show her empathy.
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1:1 Coaching for Men
Engage in deep, transformative 50-minute one-on-one sessions with an empathetic coach who gets it.
✅ Address Trauma and Cravings: Work through your challenges with personalized guidance and BrainSpotting.
✅ Relationship Rebuilding: Improve communication and trust within relationships.
✅ Lasting Change: Develop long-term strategies to maintain your recovery.
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Help. Her. Heal.
Join our 12-week empathy course for sex/porn addicts to help your partner heal, created by Carol Sheets .
✅ Develop Empathy: Learn skills to show empathy for the pain of your partners and spouses.
✅ Reduce Defensiveness: Become shame-resilient and more consistently hold her pain.
✅ Improve Communication: Increase emotional awareness of yourself and better meet your partner's needs
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Guided Therapeutic Disclosure
Get the truth you need to heal with a full therapeutic guided disclosure
✅Professional Guidance: Feel supported by a guide trained by Dan Drake & Janice Caudill
✅Find Safety: Have truth restored in your relationship
✅Be Known: Give her the gift of the full truth
CREDENTIALS
✔ Ph.D. in Human Development and Family Science
✔ Board Certified Life Coach (BCC)
✔ Certified Help Her Heal instructor through Carol Juergensen Sheets
✔ Certificate in Transformational Life Coaching
✔ Certified Partner Coach Candidate (CPC-C)
✔ Certificate in Betrayed Families from APSATS
✔ Certified Inner Child Treatment provider following Eddie Capparucci’s Going Deeper program
✔ Certificate in Betrayed Families from APSATS
✔ Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model (ERCEM) Trained
✔ Trained in the Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model through APSATS
✔ Restoring Truth Disclosure Guide Trained
✔ Brainspotting Practitioner
✔ Crocodile Setup Trained using BrainSpotting to address addiction
✔ Years of experience facilitating porn recovery groups
Testimonials
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Gain conflict resolution skills
Become shame resilient
Improve communication
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Learn to show empathy for her pain
Create connection through ERCEM (The Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model created by Carol Jurgensen Sheets)
Recover together
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A brain spotting approach addressing addiction and cravings.
Developed by:
DR. ROBY ABELES
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